“It’s a boy!”, said the doctor.
Two years later he said the same thing when my second child was born, “It’s a boy!”
Three years later the midwife announced something I was hoping for, “It’s a girl!”
The doctor and midwife were not assigning a gender as each of my three children made their debut in the world. What they did was count their fingers and toes, tested their eyes and ears, measured their weight and length, listened to their heart, maneuvered their joints, and noted their genitalia.
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